Confidence is crucial for any
undertaking
My composition I would like to start
with the explanation of the word «confidence». What does that mean for me? And
what can it denote for any other person? Let us consider this issue with more granularity.
The Dictionary defines confidence as freedom of doubt, belief in yourself and your abilities. Many
people lack the self-confidence and self-esteem needed to live a happy and
healthy life. Self-esteem is a confidence and satisfaction in oneself. These
two things must be present in people's daily lives in order for them to believe
that they have the ability to do anything.
Why so many people faces with the lack of confidence what is the reason
for that? In my opinion, the answer on that question is not so easy? Of course,
we can guess, that the reason can hide in a little things. For example, problems
in the relationship with parents, classmates, lack of attention, shortage of
care and many other things. We should rememberthat such people are very shy
sometimes and it is difficult for the to communicate with people and especially
it is very hard to speak in a public
As for me, confidence is something that should be inside of yourself. Self-confidence is something that cannot be
taught. It is up to the individual to decide how much belief that they possess
inside of themselves.
It is your right to choose, to feel
positive emotions or be negative. However, I firmly believe that negative emotions
also can help us, and we should not avoid them. If you feel fear, anger, grief, even you have some dreadful
habits which are сcondemned by the society, it does
not make you a bad person, it is your choice. If you think that you are not the
person that you would like to be, you should do your best, make efforts and be
the best version of yourself. Confidence does not denote that you think that
you are better than somebody is, confidence does not include negative sights of
your character, you should not be arrogant or haughty. Confidence it is acceptance
of yourself with all negative emotions and sights, do not afraid to be vulnerable,
to have weaknesses, to be touching, just be who you are, and people will
respect you that you do not hide your sincere emotions
Honestly, I really like what you are saying in the end about accepting oneself and not to be afraid to appear vulnerable. I'm not sure if I'd agree with you that "Self-confidence is something that cannot be taught." Taught - probably not, raised - definetly yes, I believe.
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